While the previous section might give the impression that I am idealistic — which, don’t get me wrong, I definitely am — life also happened, which made me increasingly goal-oriented.

After many hardships, bad influences, and lack of guidance, I developed a certain strength of will, for better or worse. Let’s just say not everyone will be stubborn “strong willed” enough to just drop out and pursue a career on their own.

Luckily I appear to have made a succession of good decisions and have landed on my feet. This inner peace has given me a newfound love for those around me.

And almost as importantly, it built character. It gave me endurance during hardship and — even though it took some time to learn to wield it — allows me to speak up for what I truly believe to be important.